Saturday, April 10, 2010

hair to be loved (a look at Andy)

As you know, I can't study one of my men without also thinking of the other. When it comes to hair Andy is pretty much a 180 of Rob.

When Andy was young he had masses of dark brown hair which, with the help of all that 80s product, made him stand out in a crowd. Years later, when he started losing his gorgeous locks, he shaved his head right bald. He's blessed with a very nicely shaped head and really nice facial features, so I think he looks quite sexy as a bald man. And he carries it well. Confidence is everything.

I have never had a bald boyfriend before Andy. As a young girl I admired Yul Brynner in The Ten Commandments--that's my first recollection of equating bald with sexy. Then once Howie Mandel shaved his head, I was certain that was something worth pursuing. Not that I ever really pursued one of these types...

But I was certainly intrigued when I ran into Andy after 29 years and saw that he was bald. Now, I like stroking his head while we're in bed, and kissing it. I think his baldness emphasizes his wonderful smile and deep brown eyes.

Andy also has facial hair, something I'd never liked before. He shaves his face only once a week or so, but looks so great in his scruff. It makes my face red when he kisses me, but the redness is sort of my badge of honor. I love to hold his face in my hands, feeling his beard and looking into his eyes.

His body is fairly hairy. Kind of average amount for the chest and stomach hair, but extremely soft. He does not trim as far as I can tell, but because his hair is so soft, I have no problem with it. In fact, I love brushing my face against it, even sleeping against him.

Also, never before have I had a man with hair on his ass or his back. I was strangely ok with Andy's, again, I think, because it wasn't excessive and it was very soft. He so loved when I touched him, as if he'd been deprived of someone who could truly appreciate him.

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