Wednesday, July 11, 2012

what? no boxers?


It's been damn fun being kidless for the summer. Christie's gone back home till mid-August, so Andy and I are free to do whatever we want, when we want and however we want. Let's just say it spices things up a bit and makes us that much more adventurous.

IF adventurous means going sans underwear, then Andy was indeed adventurous today. The real adventure lay in the fact that as we were standing on the balcony kissing, he decided to finally share with me the fact that he had no underwear on. Well, that immediately piqued my curiosity. I wanted to know what it felt like, did he like it, did he hate it? And could I tell the difference by looking, feeling?

I just so happened to rub up against him and that's when the real fun began. I know boxers are made of just about the thinnest material known to man and offer no resistance/ support whatsoever to the goods, but I swear I could feel a difference without them. Things were perking up at my slightest touch. Very nice!

We thought it best to take the party inside. I took a spot in my favorite 
livingroom chair. Andy walked over to me, stopped and stood in front of me, waiting. I must say it was about 20x sexier to peel his pants off and find him stark naked underneath. Hello! I. Like. That.

Delicious sex ensued. We swapped sexual favors on various pieces of furniture and ended up on the floor, close and satisfied. The livingroom is fun. Maybe we'll do it in the livingroom all summer long. That way when the kid comes back, the bedroom will be fresh and exciting again. Of course there are those mirrored closet doors on the way to our ensuite...that could also be very adventurous.

Monday, July 9, 2012

one year in LA

Still a newbie, but definitely learning the ropes, I am extremely proud to say that I survived my first year living in LA. Not for the faint of heart, LA chews you up and spits you out, all the while asking how much more do you want to take? Then, when you look it square in the eye and say bring it on bitch, it backs off and says ok, I guess you can stay.

Victorious? Well, not quite yet. Still some obstacles to overcome, and I certainly have not met my main goals in coming here. But for now I am happy to be healthy, employed, in love, and finding my space in the city of angels.

The other night as I was leaving Santa Monica and merging onto the 405 from the 10, I saw the lights of downtown LA on my right far off in the distance, the buildings of the Wilshire district at my immediate right and the hills of the San Fernando Valley ahead. It was a sight to behold--I mean it is so damn beautiful and breathtaking that sometimes it hits me and I get a little choked up.

Where else in this country, maybe in the whole world, has all this to offer?--ocean beaches, nightlife, endless action, culture, mountains, cities within cities, amazing weather, shopping galore, everything...except my family.

Dunno, guess LA's growing on me a little.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

tonight let's be lovers




open some red, red wine and taste your red, red...
and all the sweat's leading and dripping wildly, you can't deny
the pleasant dreams are here, just exploit them
just you and me, just for an evening
all the way
...and tomorrow go back to being friends

Amazing song and such a sweet fantasy, but really?! Can anyone honestly do this? I'd like to think I can, but if someone's hot enough to jump in the sack with on Saturday night, I'm gonna be wanting him on Sunday, too. Unless, of course it was in a drunken fog and on Sober Sunday I decide he'd look better with a bag over his head. Have I ever done that? No. But I have had a guy be such a big disappointment that I no longer desired him. That, I could see...

But typically I won't open Pandora's box just for one night and banish it from my mind forever after. I take my attractions (and sex) very seriously. And I can get hooked pretty easily.

OK, so say you actually get it on with someone you know secretly "just for one night". Can you go on in your daily life (assuming that secret lover is somehow present) and control your desire? Can you coexist indefinitely with the lover of yesterday without anyone else knowing, or ever going back for more?

Monday, July 2, 2012

damn catchy


I've been meaning to see this kid play ever since I first saw him on The Voice last season. Plays somewhere in LA just about every week. Just love this tune.

climbing right on

Whew! Being kidless for the summer is fun. And I've been relishing this self-imposed challenge to indulge Andy's every-third-minute thought with frivolous abandon!

The other night we tried out a new whiskey at a bar in Silverlake. It was tasty, but it almost put us flat on our asses before we'd even finished one glass. It was a gorgeous warm SoCal night. We wandered (stumbled) down a section of Sunset Blvd as we left the bar, finding cool hidden spots where we could grab a feel and basically kiss like a couple of teenagers. He has very yummy kisses, still.

When the booze wore off enough Andy drove us home safely. Still riding on a faint buzz I wanted to have my way with him before total sobriety hit. When I came out of the bedroom/bathroom after freshening up he was lying on the couch. I nonchalantly got naked and climbed right onto his mouth, backwards, as my own mouth went for his dick. For some reason this was way more comfortable on the couch than it ever is in the bed. I was loving it just fine...............

It didn't take long for me. At all. Combination of the booze, the freedom to be wild, the 10-day dry spell and his skilled mouth...well, that's all I needed! After my glorious moment I rode him to high heaven and brought him to his own buckin' bronco moment.

Nice to be back in the saddle...yee-ha!