Tuesday, October 27, 2009

just don't wanna


Hey guys. Gotta problem. Rob wants to spend the night with me and I'm just not feelin it.

Sometimes I'm really hot for him, sometimes I need him emotionally, or sometimes after hanging out it seems that sleeping together is the natural progression. But when I'm not feelin it, I don't know how to tell him. How do you say that to someone without hurting them?

Sure, I can make some valid excuses, like I haven't been sleeping well and I really need a good sleep tonight. Or, I have to help Christie with a project tonight, or gee, I have really bad gas, maybe I'll spare you tonight. (It is he who has used that one on me.)

But stretching the truth only works in this case if it's one night. And I'm going on my 3rd.

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